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Read MoreLOSS OF SELF
It is necessary to become very aware of the inter-relationship between past and present in order to grow and heal in the here and now. When we were sexually abused, we suffered to one degree or another a loss of self. This is an extremely profound and life altering loss. It must be realized, undenied, faced and grieved for. Many survivors come from families in which there is much dysfunction, at times addictions whether to food, alcohol and/or drugs. Healing sexual abuse, unlike sexual abuse itself, is not multi-generational. For it is only secrets that breathe, grow and thrive in the darkened corners of families.
A very major issue for survivors is that of boundaries. When one is so completely violated at a young age, at any age for that matter, one is less aware if at all aware of one’s right to individuation. One’s sense of self and others is usually very blurred. In healing from sexual abuse, it is vital to learn as much as one can about boundaries, their definition, how to institute them and equally, how to maintain them in such a way that enables the survivor to meet their own needs; as opposed to ‘people-pleasing’ and putting other’s needs ahead of their own, all too often.
In healing from the scars, the deep woundedness of sexual abuse, it is very helpful for each survivor to assess the foundation of all of their current strengths. In surviving the abuse and coming this far, and in looking to heal, you are truly a strong person and you need to know this about yourself and focus on your positives and not so much on the negatives. In healing the self, one must first remember and feel what are or have often been very repressed memories. Giving healthy expression to these and letting them go in a process of grief and sadness is part of the over-all self-nurturing required to truly heal.
Planet Nooky is a world that is safe and judgement free. The Founder Amercia Morris created Planet Nooky to promote sexual, mental , spiritual and physical holistic healing for those who have experienced carnal abuse and traumas. Amercia’s journey thus far has included experiencing, surviving, and now thriving through different traumas herself. After years of Seeking help from Medical Professionals, Amercia became discouraged and frustrated that she was still unable to experience intimacy and true sexual pleasure due to the fears that still lingered in her association with sex. Morris states: “PTSD can be a scary and lonely place, and those who suffer from PTSD, anxiety and or depression as a result of Carnal Abuse need more than one outlet to recover as they restore themselves to a sense of safety and empowerment”.
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